3 Tips on How to Make your Partner more Mentally Comfortable in the Relationship

Your relationship should feel like a safe space. You should be able to show your genuine self and emotions around your partner and feel comfortable doing so. If you don’t always feel you can, don’t worry! This isn’t always a deal-breaker, it just means that maybe there are things that you and your partner need to discuss. Better sooner than later! Making sure that you and your partner are both comfortable can allow you to grow together as a couple. This can have a positive impact on many parts of your life such as day-to-day and in the bedroom. Feeling comfortable can allow you to explore, helping you to achieve mega pleasure in more ways than one. Here are 3 tips on how you can help your partner to become more mentally comfortable in your relationship.

Communication

Having a lack of communication within your relationship can cause problems from the start. Sometimes, we think it is just easier to gloss over problems and not bring them up in the hope that they will go away. But often this isn’t the case. If you talk about a problem that you have early in the relationship or as soon as you become aware of it, you can make sure the problem doesn’t continue and can be worked on as soon as possible.
Communicating an issue with your partner can sometimes be a difficult thing to approach but reassuring them that you are coming from a place of love and are telling them because you want to become more comfortable with talking about things that are bothering you, can help to keep the conversation positive. Looking at areas where you can both improve can only be a good thing.

Relationship check-ins

Making time to check in and talk about your relationship with your partner is a great way to help you both feel more comfortable being together. It doesn’t have to be anything formal, you can keep it light but by doing this you can create a space where you both can talk freely about where your relationship is now and where you want to be in the future, as well as what you could improve on. You could talk about your needs or anything else that is on your mind and help to build a strong foundation between the two of you.

Try new things together

If you’re in a long-term relationship, you may have achieved being comfortable with your partner, but there is always a risk of becoming too comfortable! Falling into the same old routine can become boring and put a strain on the relationship. Trying new things together, such as an activity you’ve never tried before, visiting a city you’ve never been to, or even just trying out a new restaurant. By switching up the normal routine, you can create a bonding experience between you and your partner, bringing you closer together and allowing you to be more present and comfortable with each other.