How to hold the hair properly: BDSM tips from Julieta Chiara

It’s no secret that we can be excited by quite different sensations, even if they are painful in everyday life.
If on the street in broad daylight someone grabs me by the hair, then it will be very painful and unpleasant for me, but at the same time this technique is one of the main directions in my BDSM activity. Combined with the burst of endorphins that induces sexual activity, hair pulling (if done correctly) is very exciting.


But first, we define the boundaries!
Before pulling each other’s hair, be sure to discuss it with your partner. Whether you want to pull your partner’s hair or want to be pulled. Be sure to discuss this before experimenting or starting a sex life together. If both sides are ready for this, then go ahead!

Hold by the base
Regardless of the length of your partner’s hair, always be sure that you are pulling at the base of the hair (i.e. closer to the roots). A great way to do this is to run your hand over your scalp, grab your hair, and pull. Check with your partner if they are comfortable with this capture option. Another effective way is to pull your partner’s hair into a ponytail and pull at the base. Gripping the base of the hair is best. This will prevent damage to the scalp and hair. If you pull on the ends of your hair, you can create a sharp pain due to uneven tension! Make sure that while you are holding your partner’s hair, you do not accidentally injure his neck with an accidental sharp jerk.

Long hair
You can endlessly have fun with long and thick hair! Try to pull your partner’s hair into a braid and wrap it around your arm until it touches the base of your head. In this case, you can gently pull on the hair if, for example, she is riding you or you are in a doggy-style pose.

Short hair
Run your fingers through short hair so that the strands of your partner’s hair are between your toes. With your fingers closed and holding the strands between them, pull them slightly. It can be very arousing in missionary and many other positions!