Part of the thrill of kink is doing something that feels a little taboo but fun. If there is a kink that you would like to explore, you can explore it yourself or with your partner.
Besides a kink making your sex life a little fun and exciting, it also has been shown to bring partners together. If you are new to the kink life and you would like to know some of the kinks that you can try for a more exciting time in the bedroom, here are a few:
Bondage
Bondage is a popular gateway kink, often one of the first kinks people try. Bondage or restraining usually means being tied down or held back.
There are many ways to do this, but regardless of how you do it, ensure that you do it safely. If you want to be tied up or if you want to hold a partner back (with their permission, of course), always use tools made for bondage, like skin-friendly bondage rope or easy-to-use velcro cuffs.
Don’t use things that could hurt you, like rough or scratchy ropes. Whether tying yourself or your partner, stay away from the joints, and never put the rope around the neck.
If you are getting started, learn the basics of bondage, such as the different types of knots, how to stay safe, and how to take care of your partner after tying them.
You can always look into BDSM community groups or attend lessons or workshops to learn more about safe bondage.
Foot play
Foot play encompasses many activities, from the mild, such as admiring the look or feel of high heels, to the crazy, such as a full-fledged foot job.
You can explore foot play in various ways, including kissing, licking, massaging, or tickling your partner’s feet. You can also experiment with different materials such as feathers, silk, and others to generate unique feelings.
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Roleplay
Role play might require clothing and props, or it can simply be a change in demeanor. Do you want to be a doctor? Naughty nurse? Whatever the case, dabbling with role play can be a huge turn-on, and there are plenty of ways to explore it.
When playing a part different from your typical self, giving yourself a different name will help you explore the kink more easily.
For example, if you usually go by a nickname or some shortened form of your name at home, utilizing your full name could be an excellent approach to convey your new, dominant self.
When choosing a roleplaying scenario, choose one ideal for you and your partner. Excellent scenarios that you can go for include teacher and student, doctor and patient, boss and employee, and dominant and submissive.
Once you’ve begun the role play, stay as long as possible. Immerse yourself in the experience using your character’s gestures, speech, and actions.
It’s critical to debrief with your partner after the scene. Discuss what you liked, what you didn’t like, and what you might try next time. This will make you feel more connected and build trust.
Impact play
Impact play is an umbrella phrase for several sorts of impact, such as spanking, flogging, paddling, and more. If you want to experiment with toys without investing in them, you can start with household items such as silicone spatulas and wooden hairbrushes.
When experimenting with impact play, look for body parts with the most fat or muscle to protect your bones and internal organs.
On most people, the butt is the best starting spot but avoid the tailbone.
The softer your play tool, the more areas of the body you can softly strike. For example, an open hand can gently strike numerous places of the body, whereas, with a wooden hairbrush, you should stick to the buttocks and thighs.
Power exchange
When playing with power exchange, both persons enter the situation as equals, and one agrees to hand over power and authority to the other for an agreed-upon time.
A dominant, for example, may decide what their subordinate wears to a party or who they are allowed to speak to at an event.
This ability can be utilized in sexual ways, such as orgasm control, but it can also be used in subtle ways, such as psychological control.
Communication is one of the most important things to consider during a power exchange. Communicate your limits and your boundaries.
It’s also wise to use a safe word when things get intense, and you feel your partner is getting out of control.
Dirty talk
Dirty talk is a common turn-on, and you should highly consider adding it into your kink arsenal, whether over texting or in real life.
It can be as simple as giving someone a few direct praises or as complicated as making up elaborate fantasies while roleplaying.
Like with power exchange, you should have an open conversation and agree on the words you can use and those you can’t. This is because some words can hurt, and you don’t want to offend your partner when trying to have a good time.
Hair pulling
Pulling your pigtails on the field is not the same as having your kinky hair pulled.
To try the kink, spread out your fingers, then slide them into your partner’s hair at the base of their head. You should then make a fist to grab as much hair as possible.
This way, you can escape the pain of pulling out just a few hairs and enjoy a strong pull.
When doing it, don’t jerk or twist the hair. Instead, pull slowly and firmly.
Parting shot
These are some of the kinks that you can explore with your partner. Once you are done, always have aftercare. Here you have a cigarette, a glass of water, eat a snack, or cuddle inside a blanket as you reflect on the kinky session you just had.
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